Bedtime Procrastination: Why People Procrastinate on Going to Bed and How to Stop

Bedtime procrastination is a phenomenon where people unnecessarily delay going to bed, especially when they know that doing so is bad for them.

For example, a person is engaging in bedtime procrastination if they go to bed an hour later than they intended, because they wasted time browsing the internet, playing video games, or watching TV, even though they didn’t have much fun doing this, and even though they knew that this will cause them to be tired and frustrated the next day. Similarly, a person is engaging in bedtime procrastination if instead of going to bed they waste time organizing the house or eating food, even though they know that they’ll regret it and that they’re better off going to bed as soon as possible.

Bedtime procrastination is a prevalent phenomenon, that’s associated with a wide range of issues. As such, in the following article you will learn more about bedtime procrastination, understand why people engage in it, and see what you can do to overcome it successfully.

 

Prevalence of bedtime procrastination

Bedtime procrastination is a common phenomenon, that has been observed in a wide range of populations, including adolescents, college students, and adults. For example, in one study on an adult sample, 74% of people who were surveyed indicated that they go to bed later than they planned to at least once a week, with no external reason for doing so.

This is important to keep in mind if you engage in bedtime procrastination yourself or if you know someone who does it, because it shows that even though this phenomenon can be highly problematic, it’s something that many other people struggle with too.

 

Dangers of bedtime procrastination

Bedtime procrastination is associated with worse quality and quantity of sleep, which can cause many issues, including lack of sleep (or sleep deprivation), fatigue, exhaustion, worse emotional wellbeing, and worse mental and physical health.

Furthermore, bedtime procrastination can lead to many negative emotions, such as anger, frustration, shame, and guilt, especially when the bedtime procrastinator repeatedly engages in it even though they know it’s bad for them and even though they want to stop.

In addition, when bedtime procrastination causes tiredness, this can lead to reduced capacity for self-regulation, and consequently to increased procrastination, both when it comes to bedtime, and when it comes to other things, like workplace tasks.

Finally, bedtime procrastination is also associated with various disorders, like depression, and general procrastination is associated with various sleep disorders, like insomnia. However, the nature of these associations is unclear, so they aren’t necessarily caused by bedtime procrastination.

 

Causes of bedtime procrastination

People procrastinate on going to bed because issues like available entertainment and a misaligned biological clock outweigh their self-control and motivation. These issues include personal factors, like stress and wanting to feel in control, and situational factors, like digital distractions and an uncomfortable sleep environment.

Specifically, in order to go to bed on time, people generally rely on their self-control, which is supported by their motivation. A person’s motivation to go to bed can be based on various things, like wanting to stop feeling tired now or wanting to feel well-rested the next day.

However, issues like stress and digital entertainment can interfere with and oppose people’s self-control and motivation. When these issues exert a more powerful influence than a person’s self-control and motivation, that person procrastinates on going to bed, until the balance between these factors shifts in the person’s favor, for example because they become so tired that going to bed is more appealing than the available entertainment.

Accordingly, common causes of bedtime procrastination include the following:

  • Unpleasant emotions that people expect to experience if they go to bed, like anxiety and stress, potentially due to issues like struggling to fall asleep in a poor sleep environment.
  • Available entertainment, which is often (but not always) digital, for example in the form of social media or TV shows. This can lead to mindless bedtime procrastination, when people lose track of time because they’re immersed in evening and nighttime activities.
  • Desire for control, when people postpone going to bed as a way to feel in charge of their schedule, sometimes by rebelling against an authority figure.
  • Lack of motivation, for example if people don’t care much about how tired they’ll feel tomorrow because there’s time before that happens.
  • Effort of getting ready for bed, especially if this involves a tedious process, or if people have to overcome substantial inertia in order to get started.
  • Low capacity for self-control, especially since bedtime usually comes at the end of people’s days, when they tend to feel tired after having exerted energy and self-control throughout the day. This means that although being tired increases people’s motivation to go to bed, it can also make it harder for them to exert the self-control that they need in order to do it.
  • Biological misalignment, for example in terms of people’s biological clock (or circadian rhythm), which can make them feel awake when they should be going to bed (due to circadian misalignment). Another important biological factor is people’s chronotype (preference for being active at a certain time of the day), and specifically being an evening type (night owl) rather than a morning type (early bird).
  • Poor sleep hygiene, due to issues like consuming caffeine shortly before bedtime, as well as related issues that were mentioned above, like a poor sleep environment and engagement with stimulating digital entertainment.

These issues can cause procrastination cycles, for example when someone procrastinates on going to bed, which causes them to wake up late, which shifts their biological clock and makes them more likely to procrastinate on going to bed again.

Bedtime procrastination is similar to other types of procrastination in terms of its causes, but is also unique in some ways. Specifically, it’s rarely caused by certain issues that frequently cause procrastination, like perfectionism and fear of evaluation. Conversely, it’s more likely than other types of procrastination to be caused by certain biological factors, like people’s circadian rhythm, chronotype, and diet. In addition, unlike many other things that people procrastinate on, going to bed is something they always have to do eventually, and can’t postpone for too long.

 

Solutions to bedtime procrastination

To stop procrastinating on going to bed, you should first figure out why you do it, and then use relevant anti-procrastination techniques to solve those issues. For example, if you procrastinate on going to bed because you get distracted while browsing the internet, you can use a browser extension to block your internet access past a certain hour, to help you go to bed on time.

Below is a list of techniques that you can use. Pick the ones that seem like they’ll best address the specific causes of your bedtime procrastination. Try starting with just a few techniques, and if necessary, you can add additional ones gradually as you make progress.

Improve your bedtime habits:

  • Finish your obligations as early as reasonably possible before bedtime. For example, if you need to shower before going to bed, try to do this relatively early, rather than waiting until right before you should be going to bed, so that it won’t be a reason for delaying. This is especially important if the obligations that you have are aversive (e.g., because you find them boring or unpleasant), since this can make it more likely that you’ll postpone them, and that you’ll consequently procrastinate on going to bed. Essentially, your goal in finishing your obligations early is to make it as easy and as painless as possible for you to go to bed once it’s time to do so.
  • Develop a consistent and calming bedtime routine. Having a consistent bedtime routine can help you signal to your body that it’s time to go to sleep, and can help you get in the right mindset for sleeping. This routine should be as simple, calming, and enjoyable as possible, to make sure that you stick to it consistently.
  • Add a time delay before procrastinating. If you find yourself about to engage in bedtime procrastination, try adding a time delay before you indulge your impulse to do so. For example, if you should be going to bed but are about to start a new episode of your favorite TV show instead, count until 30 before you allow yourself do so, to try and overcome your initial impulse to procrastinate.

Improve your sleep hygiene:

  • Minimize exposure to light before bedtime. The closer you are to bedtime, the more you should minimize your exposure to light, and especially to bright light and blue light. If you use digital devices before bedtime, one way to achieve this is to use relevant apps or built-in settings, which reduce the screen brightness and the amount of blue light that the screen emits.
  • Avoid stimulating activities before bedtime. The closer you get to bedtime, the more you should avoid stimulating activities that wake you up, since they can make you more likely to postpone going to bed.
  • Avoid caffeine, tobacco, and alcohol in the hours before bedtime. The closer you are to bedtime, the more you should avoid these substances, which can make you feel more awake and consequently make you more likely to postpone going to bed.
  • Avoid eating problematic food before bedtime. This can involve, for example, big or spicy meals, which can make it harder for you to fall asleep, and consequently more likely to procrastinate on going to bed.

Improve your sleep environment:

  • Make your bed comfortable. For example, make sure that your mattress, blanket, and pillows feel comfortable to you.
  • Make your bedroom comfortable. For example, make sure that your bedroom isn’t too bright or loud, isn’t stuffy, and is the right temperature for you (while noting that it’s generally better to keep the temperature relatively cool).
  • Eliminate distractions and temptations. For example, use a dedicated app to block access to social media sites that you tend to procrastinate on before bedtime, or to completely block internet access on your laptop or phone after a certain hour.

Change your sleep habits:

  • Set a consistent sleep schedule. Going to bed and getting up at a consistent time each day makes it easier for your body to adjust to your desired sleep schedule. This means that you should try to keep your sleep and wake times as consistent as possible over time.
  • Wake up earlier. Waking up earlier can prompt you to go to bed earlier too, since it will generally make you tired and ready for sleep earlier.
  • Minimize napping as much as possible. Napping can make it harder for you to go to bed at your desired time, so you should generally avoid napping, or minimize the amount of napping that you do and restrict it to short periods of time and that are substantially earlier than your intended bedtime.

Change your general habits:

  • Minimize the use of your bed and bedroom for things other than sleeping. Try to avoid using your bedroom and especially your bed for things other than sleeping as much as reasonably possible, in order to help your body associate them primarily with sleep.
  • Get exposure to light during the day. Exposure to light (and especially sunlight) throughout the day can help calibrate your body’s biological clock, which can make it easier for you to go to bed on time.
  • Exercise. Exercising during the day can help you go to bed on time, through a number of physical mechanisms that benefit your body’s biological clock. However, since exercise is generally a stimulating activity, you should avoid engaging in it too close to your intended bedtime.

Improve your planning:

  • Set concrete goals. You should be as clear as possible about how much sleep you want to get and when you intend to go to bed, since doing so increases the likelihood that you’ll go to bed on time. For example, instead of saying “I want to get enough sleep, so I should go to bed around ten or eleven” it’s better to say “I want to get 8 hours of sleep, so I’ll go to bed at ten”.
  • Have a clear plan for achieving your goals. Specifically, figure out what you need to do in order to ensure that you’ll go to bed on time, and how you’re going to do it. For example, if you need to shower and brush your teeth right before going to bed, figure out exactly when you’re going to do these things, so that you won’t delay them and consequently also delay going to bed.
  • Use mental contrasting and implementation intentions. To do this, you should first name your goal of going to bed on time, and then elaborate on the best outcome of doing so (e.g. feeling happy and well-rested), before identifying and visualizing a central inner obstacle to achieving this outcome (e.g. the urge to keep browsing the internet). Then, you should create if-then plans, which explain how you’ll deal with obstacles that you might encounter while trying to achieve your goals.

Increase your motivation:

  • Clearly identify why you want to go to bed on time. In general, the more reasons you have for going to bed on time, and the more powerful they are, the more motivated you will be. Reasons can include, for example, wanting to feel well-rested or wanting to feel in control of your schedule, but intrinsic and autonomous reasons (i.e. internal reasons that align with your values, interests, and needs) will generally lead to the best outcomes, in terms of avoiding procrastination.
  • Visualize your future self. For example, you can visualize how tired and disappointed you’ll feel the next day if you keep procrastinating on going to bed, or how well-rested and satisfied you’ll feel if you manage to go to bed on time.
  • Remind yourself that sleep is a top priority for you. For example, if you feel that you’re about to procrastinate on going to bed by browsing social media, remind yourself that sleep is more important to you.
  • Acknowledge and reward your progress. For example, you can decide that if you go to bed on time for a week in a row, you will celebrate this achievement in a way that’s meaningful to you.

Change your mindset:

  • Make sleep something that you look forward to. For example, if you view sleep as something stressful, try to find ways to deal with the causes of your stress, with the help of a professional if necessary, to help yourself view sleep as a more positive experience.
  • Give yourself permission to make mistakes. For example, don’t be too hard on yourself if you take a while to overcome your bedtime procrastination, or if you make mistakes along the way, and especially don’t let these things cause you to give up entirely. Furthermore, if you realize that you’re currently procrastinating on going to bed, accept that it’s better to go to bed now rather than later, even if you could have gone to bed earlier had you not procrastinated at all.
  • Develop self-compassion. Developing self-compassion can reduce the likelihood that you’ll engage in bedtime procrastination. Specifically, this consists of three components that you should develop: self-kindness, which involves being kind to yourself, common humanity, which involves recognizing that everyone experiences challenges, and mindfulness, which involves accepting your emotions in a non-judgmental manner.
  • Develop self-efficacy. Self-efficacy is the belief in your ability to perform the actions needed to achieve your goals, and it can help reduce your procrastination. To develop self-efficacy, you should identify the various strategies that you can use to go to bed on time, and then think about your ability to execute those strategies successfully.

Keep in mind that the effectiveness and practicality of different anti-procrastination techniques depend on various personal and situational factors. This means that you shouldn’t worry if a certain technique works well for others but not for you, and that you should focus on finding the techniques that will work best in your particular case.

 

Helping someone else avoid bedtime procrastination

There are several things that you can do to help someone stop procrastinating on going to bed:

  • Raise their awareness of the issue. For example, you can go over their sleep schedule with them to show them that they tend to postpone going to bed unnecessarily, and help them clearly see why it’s a problem (e.g. because it makes them tired and stressed out).
  • Help them figure out how to overcome their procrastination. For example, you can help them identify the specific causes of their bedtime procrastination, and help them choose which anti-procrastination techniques to use (from the list of such techniques in the previous section).
  • Help them implement relevant anti-procrastination techniques. For example, if they decide to limit their available distractions before bedtime, you can help them by reminding them to log off their digital devices an hour before their intended bedtime.
  • Implement anti-procrastination techniques on their behalf. For example, to increase their motivation, you can give them positive encouragement when they consistently make progress.

In general, and especially when implementing anti-procrastination techniques for someone, keep in mind that this should generally be done in a way that they accept, since pressuring someone to go to bed when they don’t want to can lead to issues such as resentment, which can exacerbate bedtime procrastination. As such, it’s generally best to help the bedtime procrastinator develop intrinsic and autonomous motivation for going to bed on time, and to make the process of avoiding bedtime procrastination sometimes that they participate in gladly, rather than something that you force on them.

 

Identifying bedtime procrastination

Most people are intuitively able to determine whether they procrastinate on going to bed. However, if you’re unsure about this, or if you want a formal tool for assessing bedtime procrastination, you can use the Bedtime Procrastination Scale (developed by Kroese, et al., 2014):

For each of the following statements, decide whether it applies to you using a scale from 1 (almost) never to 5 (almost) always. A higher score indicates a greater tendency to engage in bedtime procrastination, except in questions followed by (R), where the reverse is true.

  1. I go to bed later than I had intended.
  2. I go to bed early if I have to get up early in the morning (R).
  3. If it is time to turn off the lights at night I do it immediately (R).
  4. Often I am still doing other things when it is time to go to bed.
  5. I easily get distracted by things when I actually would like to go to bed.
  6. I do not go to bed on time.
  7. I have a regular bedtime which I keep to (R).
  8. I want to go to bed on time but I just don’t.
  9. I can easily stop with my activities when it is time to go to bed (R).

Alternatively, rather than scoring these questions directly, you can view them as general signs of bedtime procrastination or the lack of it.

In addition, note that alternative criteria are sometimes used to determine whether someone engages in bedtime procrastination. For example, one paper suggests that there are three main criteria that you should consider when it comes to determining whether someone is engaging in bedtime procrastination:

  • Delay, in terms of going to bed later than intended or than was possible.
  • Lack of valid reason to delay.
  • Foreseeably being worse off as a result of the delay.

 

Other forms of sleep procrastination

Bedtime procrastination generally refers to delaying going to bed, which substantially influences people’s sleep. However, people may also procrastinate on going to sleep after they have already gone to bed, for example by lying awake in bed and browsing social media on their phone, a phenomenon that’s referred to as while-in-bed procrastination.

Accordingly, bedtime procrastination and while-in-bed procrastination can be viewed as two distinct facets of sleep procrastination. This means that while these phenomena are associated, they can have different causes and lead to different outcomes, and a person might engage in only one of them and not the other. Accordingly, they sometimes require different solutions, though many anti-procrastination techniques can help with both forms of sleep procrastination.

Note that most research on sleep procrastination has focused on bedtime procrastination. Accordingly, the term “bedtime procrastination” is sometimes used interchangeably with “sleep procrastination”, and “bedtime procrastination” is sometimes also used to refer to delaying getting into bed after having fully prepared to go to sleep (e.g., by powering off all of one’s electronic devices).

However, from a practical perspective, the academic distinctions between bedtime procrastination and sleep procrastination generally aren’t important. Rather, what is important is to understand that sleep procrastination can take the form of both bedtime procrastination and while-in-bed procrastination, and to take this into account when identifying the causes of your sleep procrastination and figuring out the best solution for overcoming them.